Wednesday, May 20, 2009

GRANDSONS IN SAN DIEGO, CA

Ken’s son Rich in San Diego sent pictures of his two boys, Russell and Jacob. It was great to get the pictures because we have not seen them in a long time!! I remember hiking the foothills at Pio Pico with Russell before the fires. We really enjoyed that. Jacob was too small to go with us. They both have really grown since we last saw them!

Monday, May 11, 2009

HEART EJECTION FACTOR %

Clarification of Ken's Heart Ejection Fraction %. Information from Google:

Ejection fraction (EF) is a measurement of how well the heart is pumping. It represents a percentage of the total blood volume in the left ventricle that is pumped (ejected) with each beat of the heart. As with any pump not all of the liquid is pumped out with each cycle.

Normal EF is in the 50-60% range. Values higher than this are termed "hyperdynamic", meaning that the heart is forcefully contracting. The lower the EF the worse the heart function. A general breakdown of values is as follows: 40-50 % mild dysfunction; 25 - 39% moderate dysfunction; < 25% severe dysfunction.

AND

The term "ejection fraction" refers to the percentage of blood that's pumped out of a filled ventricle with each heartbeat. This measures the capacity at which your heart is pumping.
Because the left ventricle is the heart's main pumping chamber, ejection fraction is usually measured only in the left ventricle (LV). A normal LV ejection fraction is 55 percent to 70 percent.


So you don't have to worry. Ken's EF of 45% is not as bad as it sounded in the previous article. But, thanks for your concern.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

KEN DOING GREAT FOLLOWING HEART ATTACK!!!

I know – It’s a shock! It was a shock to us, too!! Everything is fine now; but it was a major set-back for his knee therapy. Sorry I have not written or called anybody, but so much was happening that I just did not have the time. Please forgive me.

Here is the story –

As you know, Ken’s knee surgery was on Wednesday, April 29. He went home on Saturday, May 2. (No rehab following this surgery.) He seemed to be doing OK Saturday; ate dinner, watched the NASCAR race; slept well with the assistance of some pain pills. But, by Sunday evening he was feeling really tired and had difficulty breathing and with some tightness in his chest. Then, on Monday morning, while the Visiting Nurse from Gloucester Home Care was here, Ken became nauseous, had difficulty breathing and felt tightness in his chest. The three of us decided to call the ambulance and he was taken to the Emergency Room at Riverside Walter Reed Hospital, Gloucester, VA. They performed numerous tests and deduced that Ken had had a minor heart attack. They kept him in the hospital overnight and transferred him to Riverside Regional in Newport News, VA on Tuesday morning.

Tuesday afternoon, the Cardiologist performed a heart cauterization and found Ken’s heart to be in the same condition as we had described it was found it be back in 2004 when a similar procedure was performed in Arizona. Ken has two stents, but in 2004 one stent was found to be blocked with new arteries bypassing it to self-correct. At that time it was determined that no attempt should be made to clear the blockage as that could do more harm than good. On Tuesday, Dr. Burton made the same decision and no additional surgery was performed. He said that normally Ken’s heart is strong enough and functioning at about 45%; but the added stress of the knee surgery and slight changes in his medication had caused the minor heart attack.

Ken stayed in the hospital overnight and, after a few additional tests, he was released on Wednesday afternoon to come back home.

On Thursday morning the Visiting Nurse returned and checked Ken’s vitals, etc. The Physical Therapist came on Thursday afternoon and worked with Ken on some exercises for the knee. She was great!! She almost insisted that Ken’s orthopedic surgeon prescribe a PCM machine for passive knee exercise since Ken had had a major set-back due to the heart attack. So, on Friday morning the PCM machine was delivered. The Therapist came and helped us set it up for use three times a day. We cannot say enough in praise of the Gloucester Home Care organization and feel they and the PCM have been a major plus in his home therapy.

Well, that’s the story. It’s all down hill from here!!!
Ken and I sincerely want to thank all of you for your warm thoughts and prayers. You have helped more than you know.

Friday, May 1, 2009

GOING HOME TOMORROW!!

May 1 - Just a quick update. Ken’s surgery went well and his recovery is right on schedule.

In fact, going home tomorrow (Saturday), ready or not!!

Thursday, April 30, 2009

KNEE SURGERY A SUCCESS!!

April 29-30 – We woke at 4:15 a.m. on Wednesday and drove from TT Chesapeake Bay to Richmond. We had to be at St. Mary’s Hospital at 6:30 a.m. Ken’s knee surgery was at 9 o’clock. We talked with Dr. McGlynn later in day and he assured us that the surgery had gone well and everything was looking great. However, Ken had a reaction to the anesthesia and felt pretty lousy the rest of the day. I'm staying with him at the hospital. Neither of us got much sleep last night.

This is the scene outside the waiting room at the hospital, as I waited for news about Ken's surgery.


Today, Thursday, Ken was looking and feeling much better. The bandage was removed this morning and replaced with a smaller patch. Thought you’d like to see how it looks. The dark lines were drawn by the doctor as a “road map”. All the stitches are internal. Very professional job, don’t you think??

Ken was able to get up a couple of times during the day, using a walker and the help of PT personnel. His appetite is pretty good and he ate about half of his meals – I ate the other half!! His major problem now is the pain in the back of his surgical knee. So many people have told us that is where they experienced the most trouble. It seems to be true.

Dr. McGlynn said we can look at going home on either Saturday or Sunday, depending on how things go. I think, with not going to rehab and living in the motor home as we do, we would be smart to wait until Sunday. That would give Ken one more day to recoup and get stronger.

The staff here is wonderful and have been very attentive. Mike and Diane have been wonderful, too, with all their help and visits!! Thank you everybody!!

FRIENDS SHOW UP AT TT CHESAPEAKE BAY

April 28 – Every now and then some friends we’ve met in the past (mostly Pickleball friends) come to TT Chesapeake Bay while we are there. It is always great to see them again!!

Think we met Dawn and Carl out west – probably at Verde Valley. They are from Allentown, PA. We run into them here and there around the country. Carl weaves beautiful pine needle baskets and carves. Dawn makes a mean Shoo Fly Pie!! Ken loves it!!


Met Bruce and Cheryl at TT Peace River. Bruce is an excellent horse shoe pitcher and Pickleball player. He didn’t play at Chesapeake Bay because he cut his big toe in the River!!

Met Art and Deborah, guess where?? On the Pickleball court right here at Chesapeake Bay a couple of years ago. They have an RV with a “garage” in the back for carrying their Trike, etc. Note their beautiful pets!!





Sunday, April 26, 2009

KNEE SURGERY ON WEDNESDAY, APRIL 29

We are now staying at TT Chesapeake Bay, about 65 miles from Richmond, VA where Ken will have knee surgery on Wednesday. We expect he will be in the hospital only two or three days, and will be back at the RV to recuperate. We are so appreciative that the Park Manager, Terry, agreed to let us "bridge" our week out so we do not have to move.

Won’t be long now.

WHEE FOR Wii

Ken thought he needed SOMETHING to help him recoup from his knee surgery. The choice was easy – a new Wii game!!! I think he has gotten more exercise since installing that game than he has in months!! It is more FUN!!


So far, I’m the tennis champ, but Ken is the pro bowler!!

LITTLE MICHAEL’S BIRTHDAY

April 18 –Our Great Grandson, Little Michael, celebrated his 2nd birthday on Saturday. Little Michael is Diane’s son, Chris and his wife Michelle’s child. He is named for his Grand Papa, Mike (Ken’s son).

Here is the Birthday Boy with his Dad, Chris.

And with his Mom, Michelle


He loved this card with Bob the Builder!! Can he read already???

He received sooooo many presents!!!

Here is Little Michael going for a touchdown with his new football (part of our gift to him).

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

RETURN TO UTS

In his other life, Ken was the Grounds Manager at Union Theological Seminary in Richmond, VA. As a matter of interest, the Seminary Richmond Campus was established in 1898, more than 100 years ago.

Today, after we finished with the doctor’s appointment, we drove by the Seminary just for the heck of it. It was fun to remember “those days”!!

Here is Watts Hall, the main administration building and the building most associated with UTS.



The Gargoyle on Watts Hall keeps close watch over the Seminary.



Here is the new Library. The building was not quite finished when Ken was working there.

This building is a dorm for the students. Our really good friend, Millie, ran the Mail Room in this building. She and Ken used to laugh about getting each other in the closet during “those days”!! Millie has now retired to the country with her husband, BJ.

Notice the “Quad” with the buildings on three of the four sides. This was so lush and green when Ken was in charge of the grounds. Ken said, “Look at all those trees I planted! I planted those, and those, and those and …” I used to bring a picnic and make Ken eat lunch with me in the Quad. He hated it!!
Here is Ken standing in front of the Chapel where we were MARRIED almost thirty years ago by a Seminary professor.

And the inside of the Chapel where we were pronounced Man and Wife!

These are the tennis courts with the Physical Plant in the background (that is where Ken worked). Believe it or not, we played tennis on these courts against the wife of the Seminary President and her guest, Patricia Cornwell!! Yes, that’s right! The Patricia Cornwell, the bestselling crime writer (although she was not so well known in “those days”!!

And here is Mike. Mike worked with Ken for about twenty years before Ken retired. He said he was like a little kid following Ken all around the Seminary, absorbing the knowledge of the Master; following him to the dump, and sometimes even to the liquor store!!

Mike is so funny! Every time we see him he tells a tale on my son, Barry, who worked at UTS a summer or two. Mike would start, “How’s Barry? Then he would start laughing until he had tears in his eyes. That Barry Hee Hee I’ll never forget Ha Ha Barry comes into the shop one day and says Ha Ha Ha I was a Good Samaritan today! I helped a blind lady back her car out of the cul de sac. Ha Ha Ha Ha Why do you think she was blind, Barry? Well because, she had those push buttons on her dash instead of a gear shift! Ha Ha Ha Well, Barry. If she was blind, do you think she would be driving??!! Ha Ha Ha

KNEE REPLACEMENT IN KEN’S FUTURE!!

Ken went to see OUR orthopedic doctor to make arrangements for knee replacement surgery. Things are moving a little faster than expected.

Surgery is scheduled for Wednesday, April 29, at St. Mary’s Hospital.

We had hoped he could recuperate at TT Chesapeake Bay, but they have changed their policy about extended stay. They are no longer renting a month or two. We are still hoping we can get a waiver because of the surgery.

We will keep you advised.

THE T T SLIDE

While in Florida I learned a new line dance – “The TT Slide”. (TT for Thousand Trails.)

On Saturday night (after our Bar-B-Q), our friend Brad was DJ at the Saturday night dance. I had told him about the new dance, that I would like to teach it, and I needed a song with a good strong beat. He suggested “Hick Town.”

I taught the dance and everybody had a great time dancing it. In fact, they LOVED it!! Thanks, Brad, for your help.

“CELEBRATION OF LIFE” FOR WILLIE

If you have ever been to the Thousand Trails Chesapeake Bay Preserve, you were probably greeted by Willie at the Ranger Station. He always had a friendly smile and greeted visitors in such a way that he made us glad we came.
We would frequently see Willie driving the grounds in his pick-up truck -- always ready to help.

Willie died of cancer earlier this year. We were all devastated to hear the sad news.

The Staff organized a “Celebration of Life” for Willie that was held on Saturday, April 4. The Manager, Terri, presented a program of poignant memories with slides of Willie growing up, Willie with his family and Willie at work at the campground. The Staff reminisced with funny tales of Willie at work, done to the tune of “Chicken Fries” with appropriate actions. The program concluded with personal stories by the members of their encounters with Willie. We all toasted Willie with a taste of Pepsi, his favorite drink, followed by a delicious feast put out by the Staff.

A perfect way to Celebrate the Life of Willie, a friend to us all. We will miss you, Willie

Monday, April 6, 2009

WE’RE BACK!! BAR-B-Q ON SATURDAY

We returned to Thousand Trails Chesapeake Bay on Tuesday, March 31. On the way down from Richmond, we stopped at a Food Lion where I found a couple of picnic shoulders on special. That sparked an idea!! I suggested to Ken that we have a Bar-B-Q on Saturday afternoon, sort of a “we’re back” social, and invite some of our friends. I never realized that we have sooooo many friends here at Chesapeake Bay. I had to buy a third picnic shoulder!!

Ken prepared his famous North Carolina style Bar-B-Q and coleslaw. Everyone brought a side dish or dessert to share. There were almost thirty of us and we had a grand old time!!

Candid Camera!!









Men will be boys!! Wayne is telling a joke: something about playing Wii Tennis with a gorgeous, shapely, sexy woman; and something about when you do play with such a woman you should never take the Wii control with you when you go to the bathroom; and something about what shows up on the TV screen in the other room if you do!!! You can just imagine!!


Here’s Faye telling Delores and JoAnne about something – I can’t imagine what it could be, but I’m certain it’s not as interesting as Wayne’s tale!!


Hope we can do this again real soon!!!

AVASCULAR NECROSIS OF THE FEMORAL HEAD

NOT!!!

Back in February I wrote in our Blog that, following an MRI, the orthopedic doctor in Sebring, FL said I had AVASCULAR NECROSIS OF THE FEMORAL HEAD, and the only way to treat it was total hip replacement. He gave me a cortisone shot in the butt and that really seemed to help for awhile.

When we came back home to Richmond, I went to see our orthopedic doctor on March 30th. Dr. McGlynn (using the same MRI) said that my case of A/N was very minor, and my symptoms did not support that diagnosis. My pain would have been in the groin area, mine was in my butt. THANK GOD!! I did not want a hip replacement!!

Dr. McGlynn sent me to see a back specialist who said I had some arthritis in the joint where my spine joins my pelvic bone (or something like that). He's going to give me a shot in that joint, but it could not be scheduled until April 20th. In addition, he wants me to have physical therapy twice a week for two to three months.

Will keep you advised!!

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

DINNER WITH MIKE AND DIANE

March 29 – It’s always good to get back home. Sunday evening, after we had set up at the Elk’s Lodge, we went to Mike and Diane’s for dinner. Ken made Margaritas and Mike prepared Fajitas. Both were delicious!! It was great to see them again!!


VISIT WITH BARRY AND FAMILY

March 28 – We left for Raleigh, NC on Saturday afternoon; arrived at the Elk’s Lodge in the rain. To make things worse, they had no space available for us. It’s the first time that has happened. My son, Barry, got on line and found a mobile home park that could accommodate us for the night. We drove back to the other side of Raleigh in the pouring rain, but felt fortunate we had a place to stay. After setting up, we went to Barry’s for happy hour (we really needed it!! HA HA). After which we all went out for dinner at a neat new pub.
After dinner, we went to Grandson Thomas’ favorite place – The Cupcake Shop near their home, and had delicious cup cakes for dessert!! My CRAZY guys!!
On Sunday morning, we again went to Barry’s for pancake breakfast!! UUUMMMM!! On the drive over, Ken noticed we only had one bike on the back of the car. He stopped on the highway and checked. Surely enough, his bike was no longer on the bike rack. What could we do?? We continued our drive over and there on I-40 was Ken’s mangled bike along side the road. We can only hope it did no damage to anyone else when it fell off in the rain the night before.

They are raising chickens in their backyard. Here’s the family and chick!!

The chicks have really grown, but are not laying eggs yet!!

After a good but an all too short visit, we left Raleigh and headed for our hometown, Richmond, VA.

VISIT TO STASIA'S AND FAMILY

March 25 – On the way to Richmond, we stopped for a few days in Goldsboro, NC to visit with my daughter, Stasia, and her family.

A friend of hers has a farm with hook-ups where we can stay.

That evening we all went to Grandson Michael’s high school baseball game against last year’s champions. Michael had pitched most of the game the night before so he did not play when we were there, but the team managed to have a winning night. Since Michael did not play, he had to pose for a picture the next day.
On Thursday, I went to Swimnastics with Stasia’s group of seniors. First time I had been in the pool since Labor Day last year. It was great to be back doing water aerobics.

That night the whole family enjoyed dinner at Applebee’s.

On Friday morning, Stasia taught a line dance class which I joined. Later that morning, the group went to an assisted living home and danced for their entertainment. That was fun!! Stasia is to the far right. I’m in the white shirt on the left end.

On Saturday morning, we had delicious brunch at Stasia’s, followed by some picture taking.


Michael was at practice, but got home in time to bid us farewell as we left for Raleigh.

ROCKS POND CAMPGROUND, EUTAWVILLE, SC

March 23 – I found another Passport America campground not far off I-95 – Rocks Pond Mobile and RV Campground on Lake Marion. It's the first time we have stayed here. The campground had hundreds of sites, most of them for “residents”, but they seemed to save the prime sites for transients. Ours was situated among the Paloma trees in full bloom, overlooking the Lake – beautiful!!

Camping among the Paloma trees.
Our campsite overlooked beautiful Lake Marion.

I caught a Bumble Bee in flight in this one.

Ducks, too!! [Oh, My!! I goofed. A faithful reader wrote that these looked a lot like Canadian Honkers (geese) to her!!! What do I know?? HA HA] Thanks, Betty.


A fishing pier.



A miniature light house.